我知道我们能够爱得深切，爱得温柔，并且爱得持久。我见过这样的爱，而且我自己也体验过这样的爱。我发现，要赢得这种持久的爱情必须遵循下面这条法则：舍得为爱付出时间。如果夫妻俩人能把腾出时间厮守在一起看作头等重要的大事，美满的婚姻就由此开始了。
During my 25 years as a marital therapist, I have seen hundreds of people disappointed over unfulfilling relationships. I have seen passion turn to poison. I have grieved with patients for the love they lost or never found.
"We seemed to love so much, but now it's gone,"
