想起之前看过的一个短片：有个哲学家为要不要接受一个女孩子的爱，绞尽脑汁思考了“若干年”，待到他终于“明白”，高兴地去找那个女孩时，女孩的父亲告诉他，你来的太晚了，女孩现在都已经是好几个孩子的母亲了。哲学家不久离世，他在临终前，撕毁了一生的所有创作，只留下一句话：如果把人生一分为二，那么前半生应当是不犹豫，后半生则是不后悔。
We should not hesitate too much during the first half of our lives， while we should not regret at what we”ve done during the other half. We should seize every opportunity to find a way out in our lives， for it goes off swiftly. We should say something urgent slowly， something serious clearly， something small humorously and something unsure cautiously. We should never say something that did not happen， something that you cannot do， something that does harm to others， and something that is disgusting. We should tell others our happiness in
