男人间的友谊,孤独是我们的状态
男人间的友谊,孤独是我们的状态
男人从未像女人那样开诚布公地说出自己的心里话，但无言的理解，在男人当中却很管用，尤其在维持友谊的时候。
也许男人天生就是彼此孤立的，孤独是我们的自然状态。即使成了朋友，也是无声的友谊，这使得我们能彼此独立地活着。
而一旦男人间建立起友谊，友谊本身就已说明了一切。我们的沉默，就是来自于对这份情感的欣赏。
The silence of men in general is overtalked about and overcriticized. To be sure， men never open up as much as women want them to， but there is a wordless understanding in which we function fairly well especially in friendships.
I believe， in fact， that most women would prefer a man to be gloomily uncommunicative than to spill